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Miami, I have seen you grow since 1948. You have become an internationally important city with events that are known worldwide, restaurants with famous chefs, busy highways, theaters with spectacular shows and a mix of cultures.

My first stop in Miami was 64 years ago, 1948, on my way from Colombia, South America, to school in New Jersey. As I walked down the stairs of the propeller airplane, I was surprised to see how tiny the airport was – just a small hangar – but I was impressed with the beautiful ocean and with the stunning white buildings of Miami.

My second trip to Miami was in 1949 when I came to see my parents, who were on their way to Israel. We stayed in a hotel in downtown Miami on Biscayne Boulevard, where we walked the wide avenue and watched the elegant palm trees swaying with the wind. We sat on benches and fed the seagulls and pigeons.

Seeing the ocean in Miami was different from seeing the ocean in Colombia, surrounded by mountains. I returned to school in Carmel, N.J., after my parents left.

My next visit to Miami was in 1952, when my husband, Bob, came on a business trip. I took the opportunity to stay with my uncle Abraham and his American wife, Adele. They lived in a nice neighborhood with impressive shady trees on Pine Tree Drive in Miami Beach.

It was exciting for me because my uncle and aunt took me to the ice cream parlors at the Miami Beach hotels, which in those days were very popular at night. We would go for a snack, for coffee or for one of the splendid ice cream sundaes. The Sans Souci Hotel was their favorite, and I remember the waitresses would pass by with their trays piled high with tall ice cream sodas and sundaes, topped with whipped cream, sparklers or flags.

Our son, Alan, was born in Colombia in 1953, and when he was 6 months old, we stopped in Miami on our way to New York. We stayed in a small hotel called the Fairfax, directly across from the ocean because we couldn’t afford oceanfront. It was located on 18th Street near Lincoln Road. I was impressed with its kitchen and diaper service, and the famous restaurant Wolfie’s was nearby.

At night, we would take walks to Lincoln Road, which at the time was lined with very elegant and fancy ladies’ and men’s boutiques, including Saks Fifth Avenue, two cinemas and a European-style drugstore.

Our fourth trip to Miami was in 1954 and included Bob, our son, Alan, my parents, and Carlina, our nanny. We would swim in the morning and go to Crandon Park, where a little train would take us around; it was one of Miami’s favorite amusements at the time.

Then, during our next trip, we stayed in a hotel on 14th Street called the White House, which was on the ocean and had a wide, white-sand beach with palm trees. By then, we were hooked on Miami, and we came back every year in the summer, taking advantage that our daughters were now in an American school with three months of summer vacation. We found a motel called Beau Rivage, at Collins Avenue and 95th Street, which offered the so-called American Plan, including breakfast and dinner. We stayed in first-floor rooms called lanais, which had sliding doors directly to the pool. This was a great convenience for us, as the kids could easily come in and out whenever they wanted.

The Beau Rivage also had fantastic nighttime activities, like barbecues with hot dogs and hamburgers by the pool and water races for both kids and adults. Back then, Bal Harbour did not exist, and at night we would walk to Surfside to go to one of the drugstores to buy comic books and ice cream.

A few years later, we bought an apartment in Hallandale at the Hemispheres. By then, the kids were grown and going to universities. I recently asked my grown children which Miami memories were their fondest, and, without hesitation, all three children said the Fun Fair, a simple, rustic, open-air park-like place on the 79th Street Causeway. The wooden picnic tables faced an open kitchen where pizza, burgers, hot dogs, corn on the cob soaked in butter, French-fried potatoes, beverages and ice cream were sold.

After dinner, the kids would go inside into an air-conditioned room that had pinball machines, Skee-Ball machines, photo booths and a fortune-teller. We all had grand times there. It was one of Miami’s landmarks.

Miami, now my three children and I have been living here for decades, and we have seen you grow. And as my own family expanded and I became the proud grandmother of six grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, we also watched you grow, knowing how lucky we all are to live in this beautiful paradise.

We moved to Miami in 1947 from Yonkers, New York.

My dad had a breathing problem and the family doctor told him he needed to move to Phoenix or Miami. Since my Aunt Peggy already lived in Florida, my parents, Silvia and Herb Haber, decided to move to Miami.

After a brief stay at Aunt Peg’s, we bought our first home at 64th Avenue and 25th Terrace. The house was a two-bedroom, one-bathroom stucco house with a carport. It seemed that back then the town stopped at 67th Avenue and the Everglades started.

Dad had a hard time finding a job and was turned down by the Coral Way Cafeteria for a waiter’s job because he was not black.

He ended up working for Star Cleaners, which I loved because he would take me with him on his route on Saturdays, and part of his route was the University of Miami athletic dorm.

The UM players were not allowed to have pets, so we often came home with animals. Once we came home with a spider monkey (that set the next door neighbor’s house on fire), snakes and other animals.

My older brother, Paul, decided that he would go into the snake business and I would help. We caught coral snakes and water moccasins and sold them to Mr. Hess at the Serpentarium.

My parents went into the children’s clothing business in 1950.

Their store, the Miracle Children’s Center, was originally at 290 Miracle Mile, next door to the Miracle Theatre. They then moved to 212 Miracle Mile.

The store was in that location for 10 years until Sears opened on Douglas Road and Coral Way. Sears sold many of the same products for less, and as a result, in 1960, my parents closed the store and went into real estate.

I remember going to the Coral Gables bus terminal and the signs at the drinking fountains delineated, “for colored” and “for white.”

I remember driving past Arthur Godfrey’s Kenilworth Hotel, where the sign read, “No dogs or Jews Allowed.”

My brother and I were thrown off the bus once because we sat in the rear of the bus, which was not for white folks and when we refused to move the driver made us get off the bus.

My family has a great history of music. My mother played piano with the New York Philharmonic as a teenager and we always had a piano in the house.

My brother (nine years older than I) played jazz piano and I started playing drums when I was 4. I began playing at the Coral Gables Youth Center with two kids from junior high, Bob Rauchman and Elliot Midwood.

As I improved, I was lucky enough to get a music scholarship to the new Miami-Dade Junior College on Northwest 27th Avenue.

I met my friend Don Mattucci, a saxophone and flute player, who plays with the jazz quintet I play with today.

He was in the first CC Rider band led by Wayne Cochran. I played drums at the Cadillac Hotel on Miami Beach, The Swinging Door on 27th Avenue just north of Coconut Grove, The Flick by UM, and many other clubs and coffee houses.

I have worked in broadcasting here since the late 1960s. Miami has grown and changed from the small town it was in the ’40s, ’50s, and ’60s.

My kids, Laura and Lon, have moved from South Florida and I still live here with my wife, Ana Marie, and her children in Saga Bay.

Jane Wilson – and countless others who called Miami home from the late ’40s through the mid-’80s – recalled the sweet, heady aroma of baking bread serenading the senses in South Miami.

Seth Bramson, a leading chronicler of Florida history through his more than 20 books about the region, saw his collection of Florida East Coast Railway memorabilia grow after he shared his tales of local lore with readers.

Haitian activist Gepsie Metellus, executive director of Miami’s Haitian Neighborhood Center, found new voices for her cause after she detailed her deepening connection to the city in her Miami Stories feature.

These are just some of the more than 100 people who have written about growing up in South Florida for the popular Miami Herald Neighbors column, Miami Stories, since its inception in May 2009. The weekly feature is a collaboration by HistoryMiami, historian Arva Moore Parks, Miami-Dade County Public Schools, National Conference on Citizenship Chairman Michael Weiser and The Miami Herald.

Miami might only be 116 years old since its incorporation but its history is rich and vibrant. This is a place where change is the only certainty. Books and photographs capture the places and faces along the way but add personal memories and the stories really begin to come alive.

“It’s your own story, it’s your own life,” says Parks, acting director of the Coral Gables Museum. “When I used to teach history they’d say, ‘I hate history!’ I’d say, ‘What don’t you like about yourself?’ I’d always have them tell me their life history – from their parents to their grandparents. When they would do so, I’d say, ‘That’s your history.’ ”

Personal remembrances, through oral history, are particularly valuable, Parks says, because it gets to the truth.

“If you are watching something happening it tends to be accurate, they are eye-witnesses.”

And what a set of eyes we have.

‘Miami is for me’

Metellus opened her story in February by recalling an old tourism ad popular around the time of television’s pastel-colored crime drama, Miami Vice: “When I arrived in Miami in the early 1980s, the slogan ‘Miami Is For Me’ was ubiquitous. As someone who had just arrived here from New York, I not only wondered what the buzz was all about, but I did not believe for one second that it could ever apply to me.”

Turns out Miami was for this reluctant arrival.

Metellus, 50, quickly immersed herself in the Haitian community and its issues. The community, she recalls, was recoiling from “the abuses and neglect of the Duvalier dictatorship,” not to mention a period when the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention identified being Haitian as a risk factor for acquiring the HIV virus.

Metellus worked in the fields of research, education, government and community work, with a goal toward empowering and enriching those who had arrived from the island. Today, she’s the executive director of Sant La, the Haitian Neighborhood Center.

Writing her story, she said, was purposeful.

“Miami is a place for new beginnings of so many people and that’s the magic of Miami. I had to sit down and write this story,” she said. “I hope it encourages other people to follow suit. My work is all about making sure our immigrant population becomes fully integrated and becomes self-sufficient, can prosper and open doors for future generations of immigrants from Haiti.”

The feedback she received after her story ran still touches her.

“It was most exciting. People would say, ‘I didn’t know those details. I didn’t know you met your husband in Montreal. I didn’t realize you were married.’ That one got me laughing. Some others were very touching and some thought I’m doing what I’m meant to do. The Haitian community has such interesting stories that, too often, go untold.”

Sense of place

Nidia Rodriguez-Gralewski wrote of her arrival in Miami in 1959, three months after Castro took power in Cuba. She moved to “where all the newly arrived Cubans were living” – Southwest 14th Avenue and Second Street, home of Ada Merritt Junior High, the first junior high school in Miami, built in 1923.

Life in Miami for Rodriguez-Gralewski in the Kennedy space-race era meant meals under a dollar at McDonald’s. Royal Castle deals – two small hamburgers, a birch beer and doughnut for dessert – for .99 cents. Fun Fair off 79th Street, which offered a day’s worth of arcade games and finger foods for pocket change. Top of the Columbus Hotel was an extravagance with their $5 steak meals. A down payment for the family home east of the airport went for $350 in 1962. Rodriguez-Gralewski moved back to Miami in 1973 after five years in New York City, back to the same neighborhood where she grew up and where her parents remained. That’s Miami’s lure.

She hoped to find more people who graduated from Ada Merritt, so she wrote her Miami Story in June 2011. Rodriguez-Gralewski and a schoolmate have managed to track down some 60 people over the years who graduated from the school in 1961, including the principal and a couple teachers.

Miami Stories like these “build a sense of place,” Parks says. “Particularly the Cuban refugee stories help people who have been here for half of Miami’s history recognize the connection of love of place. That’s how you build a sense of place since only about 10 percent of people were born here. Building a sense of place is difficult because they leave their sense of place somewhere else. When you connect with someone you build a sense of place.”

Baking bread memories

“The stork” brought Wilson to Homestead in 1927, she wrote in November, so her fond recollection of growing up the daughter of the man who made South Miami smell yummy for generations didn’t quite lead to an avalanche of calls or letters.

“A lot of my peers have moved out of town or passed away, so my group has gotten very small,” Wilson, 84, says from her home in Coral Gables. But her feature – “a full page,” she says proudly – adds texture to several books that have been written about her family.

Her father, Charles T. Fuchs, Jr., opened Fuchs Baking Company which became known as the baker of Holsum Bread. South Miami went from sleepy to wide awake with the smell of bread after the bakery’s opening in 1934 and remained famous for unleashing its tasty aroma until its closing in 1984.

“I think about it every time I go by,” Wilson says. “All my shopping is in South Miami and I have fond memories of it. It was the most modern bakery in the country and people from all over the country came to visit. People need to know where they came from and try to save as many historical buildings as they can. The Historical Museum is doing a good job downtown and Coral Gables has a historical section and they are trying to collect things for their museum. I think it’s great.”

Alas, today Sunset Place Mall sits on the bakery’s grounds. An earlier mall at least tried to evoke the name of the landmark bakery which, in the 1950s, decorated U.S.1 with Christmas displays and automated ice skaters and moving trains, but the Bakery Center soon failed on that location after its opening in 1986.

Growing collection

Perhaps Bramson, who wrote of Henry Flagler’s Florida East Coast Railway, has the most tangible result of reader reaction to his Miami Story, published in April 2010: more artifacts to add to his swelling collection, reputed to be the largest private collection of Miami memorabilia in America.

Just check out his garage, as it’s festooned floor to ceiling with cherished relics of our past. “That’s 56 years of collecting,” he boasts.

Readers sent him booklets and postcards, FEC timetables and photographs, rare hotel brochures and menus, ice tongs from the Biltmore Hotel, a Burdine’s employee’s hat and even a fez from a Shriner. Bramson also received a monument from a less enlightened time in our nation’s history, a Negro Housing in Greater Miami booklet published by the University of Miami in 1952.

“While my Miami story did not bring out any old girlfriends – didn’t have to do any explaining to [wife] Myrna! – or long-lost relatives, it did turn up some things that, to me, were equally as important. The Miamiana was marvelous,” Bramson said.

My earliest memories of Miami date back to December of 1944 when I was 4.

We were all bundled in heavy winter clothing and shivering in sub-zero temperatures when we left Toronto under a blanket of crusty gray snow and headed south.

On the first day, as we crossed the border at Buffalo, N.Y., the roads were icy and visibility was poor. Finally, after three-and-a-half days of driving, we arrived at the Florida state line. We all cheered as my father pulled into the welcome station, where we sampled fresh-squeezed orange and grapefruit juice.

How wonderful it felt to get out of the car, stretch my legs and feel the warmth of the glorious Florida sunshine on my bare skin. The sky was a clear brilliant blue, and we were surrounded by verdant greenery. Hibiscus shrubs were bejeweled with blossoms in vibrant shades of red, yellow, pink and white. After the drabness of Toronto, it felt like I had walked into a Technicolor movie.

After 30 hours of driving, we had arrived at our winter home. It was not Miami or the Hollywood where they made movies, but we did have orange and grapefruit trees in the backyard. That winter was the first of many delightful winters our family would spend together in Florida.

I have many fond childhood memories of those times, but most memorable were the things I experienced for the first time, like swimming in the ocean at the beach in Hollywood, being stung by a jellyfish, visiting the orange groves with my dad, and seeing the bridge rise up over the Intracoastal Waterway. Dad would hold my hand as boats passed by, and we could see the Hollywood Beach Hotel, which was being used to house U.S. troops during the war.

When Dad went back to Toronto to check on his business, mother and I would go for long drives in her creamy yellow Chevy convertible. We’d stop on Harding Avenue for lunch and check out the small shops, then head south again to Miami Beach and Lincoln Road. Our favorite place for dinner was Wolfie’s. Often we stopped at Haulover Beach to watch the colorful kites soaring near the old marina.

Even after my parents sold the house on Hollywood Boulevard, we always wintered in Florida until 1953. By that time, I was too involved with my education and music lessons to be away for long periods of time.

It was only natural that after I married, I wanted my husband, Bob, to see Florida and experience the joy that I remembered so vividly. Bob and I made our first motor trip to Florida in 1963, and we stayed at the Colonial Inn in North Miami.

My husband fell in love with Miami just as I had, and we had a wonderful vacation. Bob loves swimming and enjoys basking in the sun. He also loves to eat, and Rascal House became his shrine. For breakfast, we gorged on the tiny prune Danishes; and for lunch, a succulent, hot pastrami sandwich on rye. The desserts were divine, but the tasty little black bread rolls and salt sticks were like candy. You could rarely walk into Rascal House without standing in line, but that was part of the charm. Sadly, it no longer exists, and in its place is The Epicure, an upscale gourmet market and café.

In 1974, during a business trip to Miami, my dad happened to meet an old friend on the plane who talked him into seeing an apartment he was selling in a new development called Coronado, in what was then North Miami, now Aventura. Dad was so taken with the view of Turnberry Isle Golf and Country Club, the Intracoastal and the beach that in his excitement he bought the apartment before my mother had a chance to see it.

Even though Bob and I had demanding careers – he was in structural steel and I was a piano teacher – and we were raising two daughters, Melissa and Stacey, we managed to come to Florida whenever time allowed, especially after my parents, Lillian and James Betesh, became snowbirds.

There is no doubt in my mind that living in Miami not only enhanced, but extended, their lives. My parents spent almost 20 happy years at Coronado. They enjoyed an active social life and made many new friends. They took up tennis in their late 60s, and my mother played well into her 80s, winning local tournaments. My father lived to be 83, and my mother continued to live at Coronado until she was 89.

I spent many enjoyable times with my parents and our family visited often, so it was natural that after my mother passed away at age 91, we became the second generation to live at Coronado.

The famous restaurants like Wolfie’s at Lincoln Road, The Rascal House, Pumpernick’s, Martha’s on the Intracoastal, Grey’s Inn, and Martha Rae’s Five O’clock Club are gone, and the once grand hotels of the 1940s, ’50s and ’60s, like The San Souci, The Saxony and The Roney Plaza have long passed their heyday.

Since Miami is only three hours away from Toronto by plane, our children can visit often. Bob and I take advantage of the live theater, concerts, comedy clubs and fabulous restaurants. We both feel very fortunate to live here.

This is truly paradise.

The first time I traveled out of the city of my birth was on a 24-hour trip from Rio de Janeiro to Miami on an old propeller airplane in 1958. We were one of the handful of immigrants trickling into Miami just before the Cuban exiles started arriving. At that time, my father was required to have a sponsor and a deposit of $12,000 to be allowed to emigrate.

I don’t know why he chose Miami – perhaps because it was the closest city to South America, although it was so far that it took 24 hours to reach our destination. At some point, I looked out of the window hoping to see Miami, but saw instead an unusual sight: cotton, piled as high as buildings. It didn’t look like the pictures of snow I had seen. I was 6, and I looked hard at that cotton before I realized I was looking at clouds. Many meals later, we broke through the clouds and Miami in all its glory appeared below us.

We settled in the home of our sponsors, the Aguiar family, in a pristine neighborhood of modern houses and deep black asphalt near Tropical Park, at that time a race track. Even as a child, I was amazed at the cleanliness of the neighborhood – its wide-open spaces and its wide, smooth, ebony streets, so unlike the crowded cobblestone streets of my Rio neighborhood. And the freedom! We were allowed to play outside on our own, leave our toys on the lawn, cross the streets without adult supervision, and live and roam freely. Miami was a small town then.

We bought a house across the street from our sponsors, and I began attending Emerson Elementary School. It was such a modern school that each classroom had its own bathroom, and we didn’t have to raise our hand in order to use it. On the other hand, there were no air conditioners, so the windows were always opened. At Emerson Elementary, I learned to speak, read and write English.

My father loved outings. With four kids, my father couldn’t afford to take us on too many expensive outings, but beaches were free, so every Sunday we switched from Crandon Park (where there was a free zoo!), Haulover (clothing was required then), South Beach (mostly filled with retired people), Cape Florida (not Bill Baggs then) and one of our favorites, Matheson Hammock (we called it “Devil’s Toilet”).

One beach we never visited when we first arrived was Virginia Key, which was reserved for blacks. I never even knew Virginia Key existed until the 1970s when, as a teenager, I went there to hear my brothers’ rock band playing at an outdoor concert. By then, beaches had been desegregated and Virginia Key was a haven for hippies, bands and young people playing Frisbee.

Occasionally, my father splurged, taking the four of us to those wonderful, old Florida theme parks that flourished before Disney World: Monkey Jungle, the old Parrot Jungle in Pinecrest, Pirate’s World, Pioneer City. His favorite was the Seaquarium. He delighted in hearing us squeal at the shark sculpture revolving at the entrance to Key Biscayne. The shark is still there, but motionless now, and much less threatening.

Because I was the oldest, and the only one who could appreciate it, he took me alone to a Seminole Indian Village, a place he’d visited the year before we moved here, when he came to make arrangements for our arrival. Before the casinos, many of the Seminoles lived in thatched huts. Though Seminoles are now identified with Broward, the Miccosukee and Seminole were one and the same before the early 1960s, when they were recognized as independent tribes.

Then, in 1960, the Cubans began to arrive. Rapidly, Miami began to change. More and more of our neighbors spoke Spanish. Around the mid-1960s, my mother was able to have a shot of sweetened espresso (now known as Cuban coffee) at Kress. Even as children, we noticed that something was happening. Cuban neighbors would sometimes give us cans of free food given to them by the U.S. government as a way to help the new refugees. The cans came with no paper labels, merely an official “Cuban Refugee Program” stamp and a description of the contents. I guess the Cubans didn’t much like them because they kept giving them to us. None of us liked the powdered scrambled eggs or the canned meat, either, so my mother stopped accepting them.

When we moved to Hialeah, I found a boyfriend, who took me to an empty area he called Master’s Field not far from our house. It had once been an airport, but what was then nothing but rocks and gravel. He told me that as a kid he often biked there to watch Army tanks and soldiers but was oblivious to what was probably the preparation for either the Bay of Pigs invasion or perhaps the Cuban Missile Crisis. Later, part of that field became Amelia Earhart Park, and another section became Amelia Earhart Elementary and Hialeah Junior High School, which we attended.

When the Cubans arrived, we found much of Latin America taking root and growing right in our backyard. Our family was once again able to live a Latin lifestyle – sweet, strong coffee at every corner, a language my mother could understand, although not speak perfectly, and crowded beaches filled with loud, rhythmic music.

Being a third-generation Miamian, I have lots of stories.

This one will begin with my father, Del Matchett, who was born in Miami in 1923 in the original Jackson Memorial Hospital that later became the Alamo Building at UM/JMH Medical Center.

He grew up in North Miami on Northeast 132nd Street. His father built the two-story house that they lived in. He was a newspaper boy for The Miami News and rode his bicycle from North Miami down to the Miami News building, which later became The Freedom Tower. He went to grade school at William Jennings Bryan and later to Miami Edison High School. My mother, Margaret Knowles Matchett, and my father graduated from Edison.

When I was a child, they took my brother and me to many Edison-Miami High football games in the Orange Bowl. The two high schools filled the stadium in the 1950s and ’60s. It was a sea of red/white and blue/gold and very exciting.

We attended First Baptist Church of Miami, which was behind Edison. The pastor there, Dr. Ray Culbreath, always said a prayer with the football players before each game. He was a big football fan. My parents were married in his church on May 13, 1945. That church later became the Yahweh Temple.

After high school, my father joined the U.S. Air Force. When he came back from the military he went to work at Eastern Airlines as a sheet metal mechanic, later rising to foreman in engine overhaul. He met and spoke to Eddie Rickenbacker many times during Eastern’s early years. He always respected and spoke highly of Rickenbacker. He said that he would come on the job dressed in working man’s clothes and sit and talk to the guys.

My father met the Radio City Rockettes in 1979 when they flew to Miami on Eastern. He proudly owned an autographed photo.

We were able to fly free and took full advantage of that benefit. We dressed in our Sunday best when we flew. He told us that we were representing the airline and we had to dress accordingly. He loved working for Eastern Airlines and was fortunate to retire after 40 years, when Frank Borman was in charge. He saw the end of Eastern coming and decided to get out early.

My mother’s family lived on North Miami Avenue and Northwest 60th Street. The Cape-Cod-style house was built by my step-grandfather, Jack Mangum. It was a beautiful white two-story house with green shutters and a fireplace. He also built a two-story apartment building behind the house. After World War II, my family lived on one floor and my aunt and uncle and their family on the other floor. My brother, cousin, and I had many happy days there playing in the big yard. The house still stands, but it is now yellow with brown shutters and there are chickens in the yard.

I have seen many changes in Miami over the years but I still love it here. Just take a look at the Miami skyline at sunset. One word comes to mind: “Paradise.”

With Mom, Dad, and sister, Ange, we left Pennsylvania in October 1936 before the cold weather set in.

We rode the “Orange Blossom Special,” arriving at the F.E.C. (Florida East Coast) railway station just a couple of blocks from the tallest building in Dade County, the courthouse.

The turkey buzzards were returning to the roof as they have done every winter. When it came time to find a place to live, we rented an apartment walking distance to the beach.

I loved to go shopping in downtown Miami, mostly because we took the trolley that ran down the middle of the MacArthur Causeway.

At Easter, we would get new bonnets and chocolate eggs with our names written on them at Kress on Flagler Street.

Another must was Burdines, where the air conditioning was a huge treat. Not many places had air conditioners in the 1930s, not even the movie theaters.

The Plaza Theater used to have double features and serials every Saturday for nine cents! The Olympia (the Gusman now) in downtown Miami showed double features with a live stage show.

Swimming was the favorite way to cool off. Another was a birch beer for five cents at the air-conditioned Royal Castle. What was not to love?

Sometimes we would spend a dime to go to Smith’s Pool, which was next to the Beach Kennel Club at the southernmost point, where towering condos now stand.

Many of our neighbors were Jewish, and on Friday nights Mom would light their candles to help them prepare for the Sabbath.

At the Jewish bakeries, I was introduced to bagels – yummy! On Ocean Drive was Piccolo’s Italian Restaurant, our family’s favorite.

During the 1940s, the focus of Miami changed to World War II. Returning from the movies Dec. 7, 1941, my parents told me we were at war. At 9, I could not really understand the significance of that.

Air Force officer training took over all the hotels on Ocean Drive and Collins Avenue. Their “mess” tent was down the street from us on the beach between Second and Third streets.

Morning, noon and night, thousands of uniformed soldiers marched to meals, singing all the way.

I was so proud of them. I learned dozens of songs: Over There, The Caissons Go Rolling Along,Yankee Doodle Dandy, Oh How I Hate to Get Up in the Morning.

Often we would march along singing beside them. They would enter the mess tent and we would go swimming.

At times there were artillery target practices out on the Atlantic, which as a child, I thought was very exciting. We had “blackouts” which called for black curtains so the U-boats at sea could not see the lights on shore. Street lamps were painted black on their east side.

There was rationing of many basics, such as sugar, coffee, meat, gas and shoes. The shoes were tough since children change sizes so quickly.

On Aug. 15, 1945, I was walking on Lincoln Road when the war ended. Everyone was celebrating and crying all at the same time.

St. Patrick Catholic Church held its first Masses in a stable in 1926. I went to St. Patrick School from first through 12th grades.

While dating my future husband, Luis, who graduated from St. Mary and the University of Miami, we attended every UM basketball game at the Coliseum on Douglas Road and football games at the Orange Bowl.

At the Coliseum and in the hangar at PanAm’s Seaport (which is now City Hall) we danced to Harry James, Paul Whiteman and Tony Bennett, to name a few. Luis and I were married 61 years ago at St. Rose of Lima Church.

We went to live in Havana, where three of our four children were born. Although it is a beautiful island and we were very happy, Castro sent us back home in 1960.

After returning to the United States, Luis took a job at Variety Children’s Hospital, now Miami Children’s Hospital.

After our youngest finished first grade, I started teaching at St. Monica’s Catholic School in Carol City. Later I taught at Immaculate Conception Catholic School in Hialeah for a decade.

Our family life centered around the Optimist Club, where our two sons played football and baseball and our two daughters were cheerleaders.

All four graduated from Monsignor Pace High School, which was a boy’s school when it first opened.

When our nest emptied in 1980, Luis transferred to Tallahassee and I taught there at Trinity Catholic School. We both became very involved in our church, “cursillo,” and ministries for the poor and prisoners.

When we retired in 1996, it was back to Miami for us. Luis wasted no time getting settled at Corpus Christi Catholic Church as a deacon.

We also now love to cruise, especially since Miami has a port conveniently nearby. Another big plus is all the restaurants with the Cuban food that we love.

Our family here has blessed us with seven grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

One of Webster’s definitions for home is “a place of one’s affection” and that clearly describes our feeling for Miami.

Wanderer Buddy Hayes painted his way from Depression-torn Atlanta eastward to Charleston, S.C. He settled in North Charleston, where he frequented a popular local restaurant.

In a cold Connecticut convent, Marie and Helen, two nuns from immigrant families, had grown up together, singing popular songs like Begin the Beguine, about tropical nights and swaying palms. They ran away for Miami one bitterly cold morning. Helen had a nice car, Marie had a nice case of wanderlust.

They got along fine all the way to Charleston – a town of warm winter days, beaches and swaying palm trees. Then, sitting in a popular restaurant north of Charleston, the two friends argued.

“Just go on without me, I’m staying here,” Marie told Helen.

Then without leaving that restaurant, Marie found a job, a roommate, and, on her first day at work, Buddy Hayes walked in and found her.

Fast-forward to 1946: Buddy and Marie have two little children, my brother Jim and me, and she’s pregnant again. “Aunt” Helen is visiting from Florida. They’re laughing about old times and singing Begin the Beguine.

Mama died in childbirth with that third child. Helen’s visit is a rare memory of her. When I played piano years later, my father gave me sheet music for Begin the Beguine, which I played repeatedly hoping she could hear me.

Before the ’60’s brought us hippies, the decade brought us Beatniks and coffeehouse poetry. I wrote my own “drifter” songs and poetry, but I eventually married anyway, moved to a Low Country island and excused my wanderlust as youthful notion.

When we separated in ’71, the Midnight Cowboy theme became myBegin the Beguine. I left my last day of work in a sun shower – rare for Charleston – while my car radio played, “I’m going where the sun keeps shining, through the pouring rain…” I had left my job, my husband, his island, our friends. Mama, it’s time for Miami, I thought.

I felt her beside me on the drive and when I landed a job at the great JM, Jordan Marsh’s gorgeous five-story downtown store. I found a nearby apartment at the Bayshore Drive home of feisty matriarch Adelaide Allocca.

Oh, Mama, I can walk out my door and see Biscayne Bay! Across 18th Street was the small, homey Miramar Hotel, where I breakfasted on Sundays with only Mama’s spirit and The Miami Herald for company. JCPenney was a block west, on Biscayne. Across Bayshore from Jordan Marsh were the Herald building, the Seaboard building, a cathedral and the Miami Women’s Club. A vacant lot lay between the cathedral and the Women’s Club, with a dock where yachtsmen frequently tied up, came ashore and crossed Bayshore Drive to shop at Jordan Marsh.

Although they were decades older than me, Adelaide and her friends became my first source of Miami social life and information. She and her sons welcomed me at Thanksgiving. She enlisted me to drive her places, to join her card-playing socials. When I admired the Women’s Club’s gracefully sloping coconut palms, they told me about the lethal yellowing that was expected to wipe out all our palms. One card player, Mary Fascelli, introduced me to her son Dante. “He dropped the ‘i’ from his name when he went into politics,” Adelaide explained later; I had just met Dante Fascell, Florida’s most famous Congressional representative of the time.

Both JM and the Herald had employee cafeterias, and as many Herald people ate at ours as did JM employees at the Herald’s. Three outstanding Herald cafeteria moments:

1. Briefly meeting John Keasler, my favorite Miami News columnist.

2. Complaining to coworkers about a doughnut-shaped roll that seemed stale. The JM ladies laughed, but the next morning at breakfast, they showed me how bagels should be toasted, buttered and savored.

3. An alarming glimpse out the cafeteria window, eye to eye with the huge Goodyear blimp that appeared to be coming in at us. But it was only positioning for a landing across the channel at Watson Island.

Walking home from Bayfront Park one day, I noticed people gathering, standing on the sidewalk. I asked someone what was happening and was told, “Orange Bowl Parade is coming.”

How could I have forgotten? My father and I watched that parade every year on TV, and I could already hear the music. So I stayed, too. The Coppertone float, carrying four attractive young men, drew the loudest cheers. “It’s the Rhodes Brothers,” someone said of Miami’s iconic, nationally known entertainers.

Before I left JM and downtown, Adelaide’s neighbors buzzed with rumors that a large shopping mall would soon take over our neighborhood between Bayshore and Biscayne, between JM and JC Penney’s. Offers were made to Adelaide and her neighbors, but she swore to hold out.

Years later, I returned downtown to the multi-storied Omni Mall, with its huge carousel in the round feature window.

Jordan Marsh and JCPenney anchored it, and the Omni monster had devoured all the homes between, except for Adelaide’s. Her place still stood, a little dog ear carved out of Omni’s northeast corner. She had held out like she said she would.

From somewhere far away, I heard an ex-nun laugh.

I first met Mary Merlo Lugo at a party at a friend’s house in South Miami. Circulating, as one is prone to do at any party, I found myself seated next to this wonderful woman who, at age 93, regaled me for the next four hours with the most entertaining anecdotes about her life, both in her native Puerto Rico and in Miami.

She moved to Miami in 1945, never to go back, except for a few short visits.

I was fascinated with this woman’s zest for life, but mostly impressed by her clarity of mind. I asked her adopted daughter to take me to Mary’s house to meet her husband, Vince, and got to know him, as well, thus starting a trip down memory lane, which I just had to sit down to chronicle.

Vincent Biondi was born in the Bronx, New York, on Aug. 19, 1917, one year before Mary, who was born in Guayanilla, Puerto Rico, on Oct. 18, 1918.

When Vince was 9, his Italian mother, Josefina, moved him and his brothers to Washington, D.C., where he lived until he was drafted into the army in October 1941, just two months before Pearl Harbor. After basic training in the Corps of Engineers, he was shipped to Ireland with the 1st Armored Division, and from there he was sent to Oran, Algeria, and later Anzio, Italy. Once the war was over, and after spending a number of weeks in a hospital in Naples, Italy, he was flown back to the United States in 1945.

After a series of odd jobs, Mary ended up working at Woolworth’s, and while she became immersed in the energy of a blossoming city, Vince was convinced by a friend in Washington to come down to Miami to look for new opportunities. He worked as a painter in Miami Beach and Coral Gables. One day, a year later, he happened to go with a friend to Woolworth’s. They were talking about a hurricane that was threatening Puerto Rico as they passed the counter where Mary was stationed. When she heard Puerto Rico mentioned, she interrupted their conversation.

Vince was immediately smitten, and as it happens with all the affections destined to last, their relationship was initially tentative, with Vince stopping in at Woolworth’s every day to visit her, giving themselves time for their growing love for each other to mature.

They were married on Aug. 16, 1947, and the city embraced them as Mr. and Mrs. Biondi with a gulp of fresh air as soon as the doors of the church flung open.

The city in those days was flat, irregular, unkempt. Nonetheless, some changes were sprouting here and there. South Beach had its Art Deco buildings, which Vince kept beautified with his painter’s brush. However, with a family in mind, Vince decided to get a regular job and ended up working at Burdines, making $1.65 an hour. He joined the union and, with pension and medical plans secured, they were able to buy their home at 931 NW 39th Ct. with the help of the G.I. Bill of Rights.

Vince and Mary took the plain but structurally sound house and slowly transformed it into a comfortable Miami house that became the home of their two daughters, Cheryl, who now lives in Orlando, born in 1950, and Aileen, born in 1953, who now lives in Gainesville. Then, one day in 1961, when Cuban families were making the supreme sacrifice of parting with their children and sending them alone to Miami to escape the Castro regime, Mary and Vince took in a 14-year-old Cuban girl as their own until she could be reunited with her natural parents. To this day, Migdalia calls them Mom and Dad, and Cheryl and Aileen are like sisters to her.

Migdalia eventually went to Puerto Rico, but Vince, Mary and their two daughters remained in Miami, sharing good and bad times, dodging dangerous hurricanes and taking in the luxurious pleasure of the perfume of native flowers in the winter.

Certain deep loves mature slowly, but they are meant to be forever, so the song says. However, nothing as we know it is forever. I called Mary to ask her the dates when her daughters were born. Mary passed away too prematurely, on Thursday, March 15, 2012. I was preparing to fly down to Puerto Rico, her birthplace. She never got to read this chronicle.

As I now sit on the beach in Puerto Rico, rewriting the end of this “Miami Story,” I really think that I was truly blessed to share some very special moments with this very wonderful woman and her husband. They, in turn, shared 65 glorious years together and many happy experiences in Miami raising their daughters, Migdalia included. Mary’s great sense of humor, her kindness and love for them and all of us who were lucky enough to get to know her, is a great part of her exceptional legacy.

I agree with Maya Angelou when she says that most people do not grow old. We find parking spaces and honor our credit cards. We marry and dare to have children and call that growing up. We carry an accumulation of years in our bodies and our faces, but generally, our real selves, the children inside us, are still innocent. Mary and Vince made me realize that.

My Miami story began before I was born.

My paternal grandfather, Thomas Tilden, arrived in the 1880s in Syracuse, Mo., and built a magnificent barn. It was “the largest in Missouri, the third-largest in the United States, and the sixth-largest in the world,” crowed the newspapers at the time. Like a fine home, it had mahogany woodwork throughout and cost well over $10,000 – a goodly sum in those days.

But tragedy struck.

In 1896, the barn and all its contents went up in flames. Grandfather, subsequently depressed, decided to sell his farm and move his family to a milder clime. To scout the territory, he boarded Mr. Flagler’s train and rode all the way to its just-completed terminus at Biscayne Bay. There, according to my grandmother, he found a settlement, recently incorporated, of fewer than 50 inhabitants.

Evidently this did not suit his needs, so he reboarded the train and went north; about halfway up the state, to what is now Florahome. There, he bought land and built an architect-designed home. Back in Missouri, he loaded his furniture, some livestock, tools and other belongings into a freight car, and on Oct. 16, 1901, he and his family took up residence in Florahome. When my grandfather died in 1906, my grandmother, with her four youngest children (my father included) moved back to Missouri.

But two of the children stayed on at the farm in Florahome and, even today, there are Tildens at Winter Park.

Fast-forward to 1946: World War II had ended. I was a sophomore at Lindenwood College in St. Charles, Mo., and my parents’ wartime employment in Oak Ridge, Tenn., was no longer needed.

They planned to start a new life “out West,” but wanted to see some of the USA. They bought a trailer and, with my three brothers in tow, headed south to Miami.

Oops, their timing was off – September was upon them, and school started. They parked the trailer and enrolled Billy and Tommy and Bobby in nearby Edison School.

Trailer-park living did not appeal to them, however, but they found that no homeowner would rent to them with three boys. They ended up buying a house on nine acres at the edge of the Everglades – East Glade Drive and Coral Way (Rural Route 4, Box 222). No other manmade structure was within sight except the tip of the Biltmore Hotel nearly five miles to the east in Coral Gables.

I came home from college and we still didn’t have a telephone (wouldn’t for another year). We did have electricity, solar water heating and a tennis court. We had an acre in lawn and only a push lawnmower. One of us was always out pushing the mower.

Meanwhile, my father, William Tilden, an architectural draftsman, found a job. He took our lone car to work every day and deposited me for a summer course at Alex Gibson’s Modeling School. Billy was enrolled at Miami High, Tommy and Bobby at Olympia Heights. Mother, at home with the laundry, sprayed the screen door for mosquitoes each time before she darted out to hang clothes on the line.

So much for the dream of moving “out West.”

Truly a model of tropical living, our Florida home had hurricane shutters; it had coconut palms in the front yard and Australian pines in back. We had mango, avocado, orange, grapefruit, sour orange, guava and kumquat trees. And Daddy put in a patch of sugar cane. He taught us how to slice off a piece of the stalk and suck the sweet juice, sharing with us a pleasure of his Florida boyhood in Florahome.

On weekends, we took long drives around the county, the city, to various parks, the Everglades, and the ocean with its glorious beaches. There was the thrilling trek on the long, narrow, rickety bridges of the Overseas Highway to Key West. Seeing a huge tractor-trailer truck barreling toward you on the Seven Mile Bridge, you couldn’t help but hold your breath and brace for the shudder as it thundered by.

I learned to drive on the Overseas Highway, turning back before the toll booth at Lower Matecumbe Key.

As we became involved with the community, my mother, Josephine Tilden, became president of two school PTAs and started the South Florida Weavers guild, becoming the state president. After my father died, she designed and built her own house among Redland pines. My father eventually retired from the planning department of Dade County Schools and proceeded to tend his “farm” surrounded by grandchildren and, at various times, cats, dogs, chickens, turkeys, rabbits, a horse (Tommy’s), a cow and a bull (Bobby’s), a pigeon named Henry, and Charlie, a vocal bantam rooster that followed him everywhere.

We children grew, married, settled or scattered, and multiplied.

I spent almost 26 years editing Sea Frontiers for the International Oceanographic Foundation on Virginia Key. Billy died in an auto accident during Orientation Week as he entered the University of Florida . Tommy, a retired Marine, is a veteran of the Korean and Vietnam wars. Bobby retired from the school system and moved with his family to the mountains of northern Georgia.

In 2012, Tommy and I are still here, confirmed Floridians, as Grandfather had planned – and not “out West” as our parents once dreamed.

P.S. Since writing this story, I regret to add that my brother, Thomas Tilden, passed away Oct. 1, 2012, just three weeks shy of his 78th birthday.

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